Where is the Love? (v.1-3)
This passage starts out with Paul basically chastising the Corinthians for placing so much importance on the spiritual gifts. While they are important to the ministry, if we do not have love while serving with these gifts, it means nothing if love is not the motivator of our service; we are only "a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal" (v.1, NIV). In pagan ceremonies, worship would often be accompanied by gongs, cymbals, and trumpets. Paul is saying that if love is lacking in everything we do as Christians (targeting the 'highly desirable' gifts like speaking in tongues and prophesying in this passage), we are no better than these pagans who worship idols and our actions have no spiritual impact.
What is Love? (v.4-8,13)
The next section details the various characteristics of love, which I will list below:
Love...
1. Is patient with others
2. Is kind and gracious to others with generosity
3. Seeks the good of others rather than ourselves - "love does not envy or boast. It is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way" (v.4-5)
4. Does not take personal offense - "it is not irritable or resentful" (v.5)
5. Does not take pleasure in others' pain - "it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth" (v.6)
6. "protects, believes, hopes and endures what others reject" (JMac)
As John Macarthur puts it so aptly, "Love is action, not abstraction." Loving someone causes you to put them before yourself and serve them in any way possible; that is why spiritual gifts pale in significance when confronted with the ultimate motivator. These gifts that are so desired by the Corinthians will ultimately pass away, but love is permanent and eternal. Even faith and hope will pass away, for Jesus will return one day; but when He does, the eternal kingdom will begin and we will express perfect love towards God and each other.
The
The Bible does not allow us to know God perfectly; Paul describes our current relationship with Him as "a poor reflection as in a mirror" (v.12, NIV). We cannot see God in His perfect glory as we are because we are separated from Him by sin. This is why we "know in part and prophesy in part" (v.9, ESV); we are just like children and act like children (v.11). However, we will finally be able to see Him "face to face" (v.12, ESV/NIV) when we are reunited with Him in the final kingdom - we will grow up and "[give] up [our] childish ways" (v.11, ESV). We will know Him as He has known us all along!
Verses to Remember
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres." 1 Cor. 13:4-7, NIV
Closing Remarks
I know, I know... those section titles were corny. Sorry.
Verse 6 particularly struck a chord with me; in the ESV, it reads, "it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth." No matter how much or how terribly we lie to our brothers and sisters, if they love us they will forgive; and not only forgive, they will be joyful that the truth has been revealed. I was always afraid that people would hate me if they saw who I truly was, but I realized that God in His infinite grace and love will always accept us for who we are, as will our siblings in Christ; after all, we are part of the same body and have to work together to keep it running, don't we? So that's my revelation for the day :P
God bless,
Joe Mak
Colossians 3:23-24